“Most active members, more chances to get laid, quick and easy chat, overall my number one pick.” 
Overview Of
Adultfreindfinder
AdultFriendfinder.com is the most popular casual adult
dating site, not just only in the USA, but globally too. It boasts , and lives
up to the hype , of the world’s largest swinger and sex dating site, & in
fact has the most active members of all the sites I have reviewed. Just like
any other sex dating site , you have to
spend a little amount of time in creating a good profile & writing emails ,
but Adultfreindfinder at least puts all the people that want to play
together in one place. In addition to the sex dating motive, their
website is full of site features &
other adult entertainment. Ofcourse they have their pros and cons , but they
are my overall number 1 pick.
General Information
Adult friend finder is often referred to as AFF . To me,
adultfreindfinder seems to be an original adult casual dating site , and they
appear on almost every adult porn site I ever visited , which is probably a
good thing you know considering no one wants to be on a site with no members .
I went ahead testing their reach by searching over 50 different keywords on
Google , such as “adult dating”, “sex personals”, “local sex hookups” , etc. and Aff seems to be
heavily promoted there as well (also another good sign). Adultfreindfinder is
part of the FriendFinder Network and is
located in Sunnyvale, California, United States Of America.
As far as the website itself , Aff is a massive website .
Firstly , they have extremely wide demographics base , people that are
straight , Bi,Gay, transgender, Swingers, couples, singles,Women,Men the list
goes on.They have members all over the world. I am not saying it is easy to
hook up with people in Newyork if you live in Los Angeles California, but at
least it is potentially possible. Adult friend finder has a lot of things on
their site. Naturally theres are a lot of individuals that want to hook up ,
but then there is also a large swingers community , A partnership with live sex cam site , movies on demand , member
posted videos , a large chat community , as well as erotic stories & forums
where people discuss their erotic fantasies with other like minded members.
My Journey With
AdultFreindfinder
I signed up for Adultfreindfinder with one intention , and that was to get laid
period. I started as a standard member ,
the site promotes joining for free so I did join for free. The process was pretty
simple, create a Username , give your email address, write a few things about yourself, and voila! I would meet some nice chick tonight. Only to find my nuts remained blue
as the lake as I tried to figure out how to use the site. There are pretty
tough limitations as a free member . I will go into detail about the
differences in memberships in the next section “Free Standard Member vs.
Paid Gold Membership” let’s just
say things didnt actually heat up till I actually paid for gold membership.
When I paid for gold
membership, I felt very excited because
I thought I was finally going to get
laid that night, only to be disappointed allover. The truth is that, it is not
that simple, & I learnt that the hard way. Allow me to save you a month of
defeat and give some advice. Do yourself a big favor, spend a little less time
on your photos,profile, and take time to
write decent looking emails. Do yourself another big favor, and put yourself in the shoes of a girl then ask
yourself, would i sleep with a bunch of guys that have shitty photos, sending
boring emails or sending winks, that say “you are hot, want to come over
and fuck” or “check out my dick?” If you can go over and elevate
yourself above the douch that writes this garbage, then you can get laid.
Unfortunately it took me a month to figure out I was that caveman. Don’t repeat
my mistake, you’ll ending up sleeping with someone in no time.
The rest is common sense. Hit up lots of women, be persistent, not like a stalker
persistent, and not overly needy persistent. The rest should fall into place. I
found that most girls need some type of time investment up front from you
(don’t get me wrong, there are some that need to know you have money, but not
all). Most will want to meet at a coffee shop, go to a movie, eat dinner, or
something along the lines of a date. Yes, just because they want to hook up
doesn’t make them less of a human, so don’t expect them to just jump into bed
at the first email. Which reminds me of the time I met Stella. I’ll never
forget Stella, at least that’s what she told me her name was. It was the first
time a girl replied on the first email, saying she wanted to meet up for sex.
It didn’t seem ordinary, we haven not even met for coffee, but I liked her
photos and needed some stress relief so why not, right? I’ll admit I had a lot
of anxiety. I never had a girl reply that fast and never had a girl want to
meet right away for sex. How does she know I’m not some crazy person? How do I
know she’s not crazy? For the next few hours, I kept wondering if there would
be some issue with her, maybe she claimed to be a woman and was a man, maybe
she was twice as old as she claimed, maybe she was a “working
professional” and will hit me with a fat bill when I see her. Fast foward,
3 hours later, I drove to motel, met her, and the sex was almost bitter sweet.
I was nervous, excited, horny, my heart was pounding, her photos seemed to
match, but honestly I don’t think I was paying much attention. She took control
from the beginning and lead all the way. I’ll spare you the details, except the
awkard feeling…it was almost like she was hoping someone would walk in on us,
or maybe someone was already watching us and I didn’t bother to look around the
room? Needless to say it made a great story to tell at the bar. I have some other
stories, more of them about women wanting to experiment , but then the overall message is about my experience being a good one on
AFF. I failed in the first month, but when I hit my stride, I was getting laid
4-5 times a week, and during some low times, maybe once every 2 weeks.
Currently my profile is inactive, and I cancelled my
membership. The process was easy enough, for your convenience I also listed all
of their billing and customer service information. I found it very convenient that
this company is located in the USA and publically lists their contact
information. I will sign up again later, and I would recommend this to any of
my friends. Right now I took a break to explore other sex dating sites.
Pricing – Standard
Member vs. Paid Gold Membership
As mentioned before, I started off as a free standard
member, however standard membership has a lot of limitations on what you can
do. Even worse, I found that it is a million times more difficult to get laid as
a standard member. Like other dating sites, they often provide upgrade offers,
& while you can still do a few things like send several emails, view a few
profiles, some basic searches, view some profiles, I still came to the
conclusion that if I wanted to get laid, I will need to upgrade. Having said it
all, I then upgraded to the twelve month Gold Membership plan. It is not obvious,
but if you pay for the twelve month plan, Adultfreindfinder actually gives you
eighteen months. This ends up being $9.95/month, peanuts compared to you trying
to get drinks for some random girls at bars. Outlined below is a basic summary
of things you get with Gold Membership.
Upgraded Gold
Membership:
- Higher Placement in Basic Profile Searches
- Complete Full Access to Member Photos,Profiles & Member Videos
- Unlimited Contact with All Members
- Follow or Create Adult Themed Blogs
- Access to Magazine Articles
- Unlimited Access to Live Chatrooms
Extra Upsells – Are They Worth It?
Adultfreindfinder also offers a great range of additional
upgrades, on top of the gold member plan, though you have to pay an extra
amount. Some of them I think are potentially helpful, some others a waste of money in my own opinion, I
recommend that you buy a longer gold membership plan.
Standard Contact Enhacement is an interesting idea. In short
if you pay for this it allows free non paying memebers to send you messages, without
upgrading. If you have money, you might consider paying for the enhancement,
but I don’t really recommend for it.
Profile Highlighted Enhancement is another interesting idea. In short paying for it allows your profile to rank higher than other profiles and the profile itself visually stands out more. Again, if you have the money, you might want to consider paying for this, but I don’t necessarily recommend for or against it.
Adult videos on Demand is another option where you have to pay an additional amount for access to their pro adult movie video libraries. If money is no objection, and you are rich, then why not go for it, there are other free sites out there, though Overall I do not recommend them.
The Astrology Service is another add on & the title explains it all. This service feels a bit odd to me, & I do not recommend it. Actually I am seriosly confused why it is even there? Remember the magic 8 ball game ? If you ask the ball if you are gonna get laid, the answer will be no coz you are spending all your time on astrology. You should spend that time, & money, on meeting & hooking up with singles.
Astrology Premium
plan: $9.95/Month
- Romantic Compatibility Report
- Romantic Profile
- Love hurts: My Relationship Challenges
- Romantic Forecast
Customer service and
Payment methods
You will be happy though to know that they accept most major
payment forms, & if you need to be very discrete, the appearance on your
credit card slip looks like one of the listed below. Additionally, they now allow
pre-paid gift cards which ofcourse is another nice discrete option.
- Credit Cards – Mastercard,Visa, Discover
- Credit Cards by Fax/Mail
- Electronic Check (ACH)
- Prepaid Gift Card
Appearance on Credit
Card Statements:
- Various, Inc. 408-702-1033
- billff.com 408-702-1033
- ffn.com 408-702-1033
Billing Support:
- Feedback Form on Site: www.ffn.com/about/billing-support
- 220 Humboldt Court, Sunnyvale, CA – USA
- Domestic Phone: 408-702-1033
- Toll-free 888-575-8383 (USA/Canada only)
- International +800-3363-3333 (Brazil, UK, Italy, France, Germany and Spain)
- Fax: 408-745-5680
Privacy &
Security
I found that Adultfreindfinder is very good at keeping high
standards of safety on their member profiles details. Each and everytime a brand
new member joins the site, their customer care team reviews, approves, or
denies profiles, and also investigates every member complaint. They usually
take the time to take off profiles that abuse the site, and they also proudly
display their USA and European union Safe Harbor Compliance Badge. Another good
feature to see is ConfirmID. AFF has partnered
with ConfirmID to verify genuine users on their site. To learn more about
this please take a look at the links below.
Privacy Top Priorty:
- USA and European union SafeHarbor framework compliant
- To Learn more: www.export.gov/safeharbor/
- Upon request CC Information and Personal Information can be omitted
- Email: privacy@friendfindernetworks.com
- Mail:220 Humboldt Court , Sunnyvale CA 94089
- Phone: (408)702-1040
Confirm ID
Partnership:
- To Learn more: www.confirmid.com/adultfriendfinder_dating_site
- Remain completely anonymous and give others confidence to chat with you.
- Enjoy total freedom. Any person you meet online can then check that you are a verified member.
- People are 55% more likey to connect with someone who has been verified by Confirm ID!
The Bottom Line
Adult friend finder backs up their reputation of being the
world largest sex & swinger site because they have more active members than
any other site. While I think it’s not possible that you’ll get laid the
very same night of signing up, with a
little extra work, you can have a very fun sex life. I do not think it is
realistic you can actually get laid with their free membership plan, but it
seems realistic if you upgrade to gold
membership. The website also has alot of different features , some of which are
free, some of which you have to pay for, on top of the gold membership plan. I
do not really recommend the add ons, plenty of people, couples, whether
swingers, have met,hooked up had sex, & ultimately had a good time without
them, but the choice is yours. Overall its a really great site to meet new
partners and explore the naughty side within you. I highly recommend it.
